Success Story: Tina Reyes

Isn’t life more fun when we have someone to inspire us? That’s how I feel each and every day with my clients, customers and coaches. Today I want to highlight Tina. Check out her current results!!

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I’m so proud of my challenger, Tina! She decided that she was ready to make some changes to end the year right and she’s def doing it right!

Here are her recent pics (cuz pics tell so much!). The far left is her starting photo, the middle pic is a month ago and the far right is her today. Here are her own words regarding her success so far, I know she’s not stopping anytime soon! Let’s do this, girl!!

“Before I started I was tired and lazy and I was tired of be tired. I rarely wanted to do anything outside of the house and we never did anything active as a family. My body was not my friend and doing the simple tasks like tying my shoes was hard.”
“My biggest inspiration for starting this journey is my daughter. She’s my best friend and my biggest cheerleader! And she’s getting married to her long time boyfriend next Aug.”
“Staying on track is the biggest challenge for me. Luckily my husband is totally on board and doing this all with me to. My support from you and everyone in our groups is amazing!!”

“I’ve been doing slim in 6 and I LOVE it. It’s hard and challenging but it makes me want to work harder to do it all. I’ve been able to do so much more than I ever thought possible.”

“So far since starting in Aug. I have lost a total of 16 pounds and 18 inches. The best part is the confidence I’ve gained. I feel like I can do anything! I have to say I’m most proud of sticking to the program and getting my workouts done!”

“My life no longer revolves around the TV or cell phone playing games. I rarely sit still for very long at a time and LOVE going on very long walks with my family. (most of the time those walks include Pokemon hunting to) LOL”

“I love my Shakeology!! Especially vanilla!! I don’t have the crazy cravings for junk like I used to and look forward to my Shake treat everyday!! ” – Tina

If you want to start your own transformation story, simply fill in the information below (it won’t show up publicly so don’t worry about that!) and I’ll connect with you right away to get you started on your goals. No diets, no gimmicks and long lasting results guaranteed!

 

Diets are the problem

Diets don’t work. I’m not even being sarcastic and trying to get your attention with that line. They just do not work.

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Think about it, most of the people who are always on a diet are the people who are always struggling with their weight. We tend to blame ourselves when we fall off track; thinking we just needed more willpower.

Seriously? What the heck does being able to keep suffering through starvation and fatigue have to do with willpower? Most diets are based on depriving our bodies from the stuff we love. We get excited to start one of these torture plans in hopes of desperation in getting us out of the misery we find ourselves in. Think about that for a moment. We are literally without hope in times when we turn to a diet. Why else would we choose suffering and misery to fill our days? It’s not helping. Did you know that our diets fail us 95% of the time?  What else is there to say?

In the last 100 years or so (maybe many more, in my opinion), dieting has meant suffering; or “die” with a “t”. (ya, that was funny when I was 10 years old too!) We are forced to suffer feeling hungry and miserable in hopes of the number on the scale moving in the downward direction.

But even when we lose the weight; we cannot sustain that amount of torture so we return to our previous habits and where do those lead us? Back to the beginning.  We are forced to think of food as just fuel to feed our bodies. It’s def not just that. Food is our comfort and has drug like effects in times that we need it. I believe that in those critical moments, it beats jumping out of a window.

Think about every celebration or gathering you attend. It’s always centered around foods. Imagine how depressing an event would be without food. It would simply be a “meeting” and I’m pretty sure I’d skip out if that were the case. Food has a direct effect on our bodies’ stress hormone levels. Many people I’ve worked with (myself included) use food as comfort in “taking care” of their needs because they need that quick “fix”, much like a drug like effect.

It’s no surprise when you look at the facts that diets are extremely low in calories and definitely not in the realm of being sustainable. The more weight we have to lose, the more of our lives we have to suffer in hopes of achieving our “success”.  Are you really willing to permanently change your level of happiness and energy (among other factors) in return for a number on a scale? I’m not and I don’t have to be. Neither do you.

I’ve talked to many people who think that losing weight is hopeless. They tell me they’ve “tried everything” and just can’t seem to reach their goals. I’ve heard claims that the only way someone who is obese can succeed is by using drugs or surgery. This makes me so sad. We are not failing our diets; the diets are failing us.

I will say that those who lose weight and hope to keep every last ounce of it off forever is not possible. What I’ve learned in both my journey of losing 20, 30 and even 70 lbs (this was after my first pregnancy) that it is an ebb and flow of success. While I initially lost the “weight”, when I focused primarily on the number on the scale; I would begin to gain the weight back. It’s when I took the focus off of that stupid machine and put the focus into my own efforts daily that I began to feel better and eventually my weight found it’s happy place. I currently fluctuate about 7 lbs or so and don’t sweat it because I have found my sweet spot.

Losing weight and keeping it off is doable. You can do it too. Instead of criticizing the game players for not scoring in the game, let’s instead fire the coaches and change the rules that are based on silly suffering and deprivation. Let’s learn how to find our own happy range and take initiative in doing what works and enjoying foods we love – on our terms.

Are you ready?

Shoot me an email and let’s chat about setting you up for a personal success story. It’s your choice either way.

Kathyprofitness@gmail.com

Are you emotionally tied to your goals?

It’s funny how many of us have goals we hope to reach one day (such as; losing weight, earning more money, having better relationships, etc) but end up repeating patterns endlessly that never quite add up to more in the long run. What are we doing wrong?

I had someone ask me recently about my panic disorder. If you have read my story, you know that I suffered (quite debilitating) panic disorder for over 20 years. It started at the age of 19 after a devastating break of a relationship that was unhealthy in many ways. I was young and I was quite naive, so I allowed stresses and unhappiness to pile up in my body to the point of near break down. My heart would start to pound out of my chest; I’d be unable to catch my next breath; I’d have pains shooting through my body and I was certain that I was near death. These episodes would come on suddenly and without warning. I never knew how long they would last and each time it was unclear if I would survive. I ended up in the emergency room more times than I can count and to anyone who has never experienced a panic attack; I cannot explain the enormity of the feeling during an episode. I became more and more fearful of being in public because of the sudden outbreaks; to which I had no control over. Who wants to be seen by others when they are experiencing a life or death situation in their minds and bodies?

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This went on for many years; some more mild over time and some periods of immense attacks. I researched what to do and why they would come about but it was never quite clear on how to handle it the best before, during or after. I remember one doctor visit (which my sister in law drove me to because I wouldn’t allow myself behind the wheel) when I couldn’t even speak since I was trying to catch my breath and relax as much as possible. She told the doctor what had been happening and asked him what to do and what could happen. I remember his callous and uncaring remark, “Nothing will happen. She’s just panicking and she’ll either stop eventually or pass out.”

This was probably the worst thing he could have said in front of me. He didn’t even speak to me but was looking at me, quite disapproving. It was cruel and made me feel as though I was crazy. What could he have said that would have helped me better? Anything in terms of acting like he actually cared and then stating some facts that could help me begin a healing process.

Which it truly was, in the long run. I ended up seeing a psychiatrist in order to figure out how to sleep through the night. He confirmed that I was doing well on my studies into mental issues that plagued my issues and needed to relax my mind in order to sleep. I was prescribed a low dosage tricyclic antidepressant to help alleviate the anxiety and allow me to sleep through the night. I am so scared of medications that I only took half the prescribed dosage and still thought I was having a bad reaction in the first dosage.

In any case, it did help me begin to relax. I started to sleep through the night but didn’t like how it would knock me out at a certain hour every night. I wasn’t sure if this was going to be how I’d live the rest of my life but decided it was a step forward from feeling out of control. There were many times I realized I would have gone into a full blown panic attack but nothing happened and it was due to being on the medication. I dove into studying about mindfulness, becoming happier and having more clarity in the goals I wanted to achieve. Through my studies I began to realize my shift in how I believed about myself and my capabilities. I began to let go of stresses that would have plagued me in the past; trying to be ‘perfect’ in all areas, caring what others thought about me and thinking I’d have to live up to anyone else’s standards besides my own. I started to focus on the areas that were the most important to me; my well being, my family and my faith. These areas of focus began to increase and the lesser important areas began to decrease. I literally felt the shift happening within my body. After three full years of taking my medication daily, I decided I didn’t want to be tied to a drug any longer and stopped taking it.

I won’t lie and say it was an easy decision. I was scared out of my mind and kept the bottle of leftover pills in case I started to suffer anxiety issues again. But nothing happened. After a point, I then celebrated by tossing the pills into the trash and listening to my body and my mind’s cues in how I was feeling at specific times of more stress and busyness. I simply changed the way my mind and body worked and believed were ‘normal’ and in doing so, I stopped having my panic.

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I’m not saying this is typical and I’m not saying everyone who suffers anxiety should take this on. I am simply stating that when we have more mental focus, more clarity and a deeper desire to create a new reality; we can do just that. It takes time and it takes patience but I am a firm believer that if we want something badly enough, there is a way to reach it. Start with knowing exactly what that goal is and how to measure it when you’ve arrived.

I hope this helps you set up your goals in any area. Instead of saying, “I want to lose weight” or “I want more money”; you need to have a clear definition of the specific goal. For example, if you lose 1 lb, then you’ve technically lost weight; so is that acceptable to you? And if you earn $1.00, you now have more money so is that enough? I wouldn’t think so and if that was your goal then you’re going to realize it much easier than anyone else! 🙂 If you are looking to lose more weight or earn more money or achieve any other goal; you have to be specific about the desired outcome. It must be something you can measure and track along the way, until you actually attain what you’ve been working towards.

It will happen if you stick with it and stop making excuses about why it’s not happening if you’re repeating the same cycles. I cured my anxiety; what do you want to do?