How to freaking reach your goals

Your excuses are no longer valid…

Well, in all honesty, they were never truly valid anyway but we seem to believe that they are. Here is my Motivation Monday vlog and blog post; I know it will help you if you are serious!

 

 

Hey guys! Welcome to today’s motivation. I’m going to be making Motivational Monday posts in this blog post so feel free to FOLLOW and SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss your motivation; or your little kickbutt (I wanted to say KICKASS but held back) to this next week.

So what I want to talk to you today about is SETTING YOUR INTENTION on what you truly want in your life.

What are your goals?

What are you striving to achieve?

Now, most of us have something waayyyy out in the distance, that we hope and dream and wish that happen. That sounds nice in our minds and it makes us almost feel like we have a goal and we’re working towards something…

but unless we are actually setting up the steps to reach those goals; they are truly a dream and a fantasy.

So if you are tired of having these fantasies, I know, I got the the point in my life too where I was tired talking about it. Everyone I was around and that surrounded me in  my life, were in the same boat. They were all talking about these goals and these dreams; how they wanted to look and feel in their life, in their bodies, and in their minds. And yet they weren’t reaching it and it was always like they were stuck on that “hamster wheel”. As I was working out in the gym, I also got to that same point when I was on that treadmill and I felt that same feeling, like “this is where I’m stuck” … I’m stuck (not ON the treadmill technically but…); stuck in that momentum of just doing enough to stay in the same place. So it’s like you’re spinning your wheels and you’re just digging yourself deeper and deeper into where you are right now. So if you’re tired of doing this, listen, it’s not that difficult to move forward. You first just have to set the decision. Set it up that you are focused on a specific goal and write it down!

For me, I love to write things down (can you tell why I blog? LOL) because I know that there’s power in actually putting it down on paper. Whether you think about it or you dream about it, or you wish or you hope; that’s one thing. But you know what? It doesn’t complete itself until we write it down. Be creative with how you write it down. You can create something online and copy and print it off with your goals, you can just write it down on paper with your pen and I encourage you to post it up somewhere. Someplace you can see it every day. Post it in your bedroom, your bathroom, your car; you can even have sticky notes (post it notes) everywhere, to remind yourself; pointing towards that goal.

Then the next step is to CREATE A PLAN. Have an action plan towards reaching that goal. It’s one thing to write it down; after you dream about it and writing it down, but just looking at it and thinking about it some more isn’t going to make it happen. It’s like wishing for anything else in life. Wishing for the perfect life, wishing to find your passion in life and just sitting there on the couch day after day wishing and hoping and dreaming writing it down aren’t going to magically manifest into reality.

You need to put the steps into place. So what can you do? What are those steps that you need to do; and if you’re not sure, reach out and find out. There are tons of resources online; you can look on google for any type of information, YouTube is also a great forum to find the info you are searching for, reach out to someone you know that has succeeded in the same areas. By all means, reach out to someone, someplace or something that will help you find a focus, a goal and a plan.

Then PLAN YOUR PRIORITIES INTO EVERY DAY. 

Once you set that up, start to implement those steps into your day. Your day should be set up around your priorities.  We all claim that we only have so much time. I hear people who don’t reach their goals say to me, “well that would be nice but I don’t have enough time.” “I’m busy.”

Guys, we are all busy!! We all have the same 168 hours every week. So let’s break it down for a minute; out of those 168, let’s say you work a “9 to 5” job so that takes up about 40 hours per week, right? Subtract that from your 168, and you’re left with 128. (I never stated I was good in math but I think I’ve got this time thing handled!) Now lets say you sleep 8 hours every night (I know, I’m being generous with some of you but this only proves my point better), so that subtracts another 56 hours from your week. 128-56=72.

Now say you’re eating a combined 2 hours per day, multiply that by 7 and you’re spending 14 hours per week eating. (Seems kind of crazy but it’s true!) Now 72-14=58.

Next, for me anyway, let’s say we are exercising about 30-60 minutes- 6 times per week. (you’ll need to add in at least 1 day of rest with that type of schedule!) So now let’s subtract those hours; 58-6=52.

We are left with 52 hours. We’ve counted up our work hours, our sleep hours, our eating time and our exercise hours. We are left with 52 hours a week. What else are you doing in those 52 hours? Now, obviously we drive, we have errands to do, grocery shopping, laundry, cooking and leisure time…but 52 HOURS to do these??? Something’s not right, Lucy! 😉

Need to find out what’s going on in those missing hours? Take this practice challenge this week; take every hour you are awake until every hour you go to sleep and write down what you are doing within that hour. So for example; if you wake up at 6am, what are you doing at 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 all the way until you sleep? I guarantee you’ll be shocked at the time you may indeed be wasting in your day that you never thought much about. If you want to spend some mindless time online, watching t.v. or spending quality time with your loved ones, then for goodness sakes, PLAN THAT TIME OUT!! You probably don’t even realize how much of it you are already doing and not appreciating for what it’s worth.

Agree? Feel free to disagree too, I can take it! 😉 Any questions, shoot me a message at: www.spazzykay@gmail.com 

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Will you run with me in 2016?

Every day we wake up to a blank slate of a day; ready to be filled in by what we choose and what we decide is most important to us. Have you ever sat daydreaming about your perfect world? Have you ever wondered if you could truly amount to more than what and who you are today?

I am going to tell you that I believe you can. I believe that we all can. What’s the hang up? Sadly, it’s ourselves. We tend to believe what we’ve learned from our past results and failures. We base our success on what we haven’t yet achieved. We stop before we have ever truly begun. It’s sad, and I hear it from so many others now that I am pushing beyond my own limitations.

Think about it. What would your “perfect day” in your “perfect life” look like  to you?

What time would you wake up each day? What would you do first each day? Where would you live and who are you surrounded by? What are your work hours? What do you consider your successes?

These are just a few of the blank sheets you can fill in and you can start it today.

A new year is upon us…again. A new year to start with big goals that have haunted you before and yet you’ve been too afraid to start because of your past.

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Believe me, I can relate with those fears. And I can relate with big goals and big dreams for my life and my family’s lives. In reality, we are the only person who is holding us back. It’s time for us to push for more; to show ourselves that we are capable of so much more than we have become complacent with. Are you tired of being “tired”? Do you believe without a shadow of a doubt that you were destined for more? Do you believe you can somehow succeed in every way you have dreamt about before? Well, I am right here with you and I am ready to blow the roof off this coming year too! As I look back at 2015, I realize that I have grown in many ways and come far in my beliefs, in helping my customers succeed in major weight loss and fitness goals. I have worked with others in learning how to truly believe in their capabilities and in turn, it’s helped me believe more in my own. I believe we all work together, and yet we are only responsible for our own successes or failures.

The goals I have for 2016 are so big that they do honestly scare me. But it’s that kind of “scare” that can easily be felt as excitement and a sheer sense of awe and wonder. I have been playing it “safe” for much too long now and I am looking to focus on throwing off every bit of doubt and fear and diving headfirst into the success pool!

I am creating simple and duplicable systems to share with my team. I want to build an empire and have already laid out the groundwork. I know that I can easily stay where I am today and be “content” enough with my income; my drive and my goals…but I cannot accept that as my dream come true.

My dream come true looks like this: I see a team of women, just like me; who are busy, and driven and love their families. I see us working together on empowering other women to become successful in not only their bodies, health and fitness, but in their lives and in their daily successes. I see us coming together and braving the uncertainties of building a successful business to help others in the same way we are being helped. In doing so, I see my family being blessed for their patience and faith in my perseverance in a “better way” and a life of freedom to be healthy, happy and able to give to others as freely as we wish.

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Are you wondering why I am sharing this with you today? Because I want to ask you a question, is this something you can relate with:

Are you are a go getter?
Are you driven?
Are you motivated for greatness?
Are you independent?
Are you into health and fitness?
Do you believe you are worthy of something greater than where you are today?
Do you have the drive to build a life by your own design?
Do you want to fire your boss?
D0 you want to work from home?
Do you want to wake up and decide how to spend your dream days?
Then I am looking for you! I want you on my team! I want to build this empire together and dream bigger than we’ve ever dreamed before.
I am currently accepting applications for my 2016 New Coach Training Group!
This will be a 3 part training system that will last a total of 3 months which will help you start from a new coach and move towards a business owner and leader using systems and tools that are helping coaches succeed in this business every single day. It’s a choice to do or not to do. You will have access to a system that is easily duplicable and simple to follow. You will learn to manage your time effectively. There are daily assignments, which can be done at your pace. There will be weekly focused group calls, there will be 1:1 calls and there will be access to our team resources and support group.  My goal is to help you, as a new health and fitness coach, succeed as soon as possible. I am not looking for those who need a “boss”; I am looking for women who have a vision of something greater and want to run with me in creating that reality.
If this sounds like you, please fill in the application below to be considered for 1 of these 5 exclusive spots.
Don’t wait to commit.  Don’t put off what you want now and continue to dream about it later. I am running and only looking for those who are ready to run with me. You don’t want to miss out!  Plus, even though it’s the holidays, you want to get signed up in enough time to review the new coach training material and have your game plan ready for the start on January 4th.  
You are meant for something bigger and greater and there’s only one way for you to make that a reality. Successful people are not people that wish for it, they are people that work for it. They are willing to sacrifice some now, in order to achieve more later. Let’s get this started. Let’s make 2016 the best of the best of what is to come! Will you join me?